i grew up without my dad and didn't think that affected me until i met my ex boyfriend because of the fact that i felt like i needed someone to love me i allowed myself to give my heart wholly and solely to this man. For four years I have went through every type of abuse: physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual and I couldn't leave because I couldn't lose the man who claimed to love me. And then I attended Divine Destiny in November, 2008 and Apostle Duncan was talking about forgiveness and I realised that if I didn't forgive my father although he was now dead i am going to remain an emotional bond which caused me to stay in a relationship of abuse. thank you God for using this powerful man of God for me to get my deliverance. I am no longer with this man and I am now saved and I am so very happy I am not at my perfect place yet but I will get there someday by the power of God.